The authors
While this tongue-in-cheeck book is the brain child of C.J., she would not dream of letting men in on the
secrets of women without the help of a man to tell her what they already know and think. Enter Jesus
Castillo, career firefighter and experienced dater.
This fun, married couple knows dating. They have each had their share of unsuccessful liaisons and have
the stories and advice to show for it.
Together, they have traveled to over 50 different countries and 46 different U.S. states. They are adept at
watching and observing the behavior of others. They are ready to share what they have learned.
C.J.
C.J. is glamorous and gritty with a variety of experiences from beauty pageants and modeling to grain
trading and the world of politics at Jesse Ventura’s side as his Commissioner of Education. Labeled “Xena,
Warrior Princess” by members of the media, C.J. brings an unapologetic sexual edginess to the book as she
divulges the schemes women develop and the games they play. C.J. , who has a Ph.D., also brings to the
book a well-researched foundation which is why it will resonate with the reader.
Zeus Castillo
Castillo is a Cuban-born Miami-Dade firefighter, and he keeps the book real and man-ready. With bravado
and machismo, Castillo tells it straight just as you would expect from a man in a profession known for saving
lives and swooning women.
